So here’s what bothered me the most on thurday’s episode: Elenas (the writers’ definition of love)!!!!!!!!!
I’ve been a Stelena shipper since day one and to be quite honest I’ve been loving S3 up until the last episode, seriously S3 ( especially the first few episodes, and the bridge scene) made me ship them even harder and now I feel like dumping this ship. And I can tell you why. The weiters keep bring up the fact that Elena lobes Stefan, always has and always will. But yet they let her act like never loved him at all! Maybe the writers and therefore Elena don’t really know what love means, because if Elena ever loved Stefan even a tiny bit, she wouln’t have fallen in love with Damon, yet alone act on those feelings. Damon is not some random third party, it’s his fucking BROTHER!!!!! A brother Stefan loves enough to die for, enough to be miserable for eternity just to have him alive. So Elena falling for Damon is the worse kind of pain anyone could put him through. And if Elena knows him and loves him the way she has repeatendly stated before that kiss (who am I kidding it was more of a foreplay) never would have happened, simply out of respect and love to Stefan!!!! The same applies to Damon, so the writers want to make us believe that Damon loves Stefan enough to die for him but not enough to stay away from Elena???? Right!

And that Delena make out session was not about her seeing if she had any feelings for him, she knows she does why would feel the need to explain herself to Stefan OR feel guilty because Damon kissed her. She knows knows how she feels about both of them!!! So either she’s as dumb as she’s been acting lately OR she’s so egocentric that she wants to keep all her options open and that’s why she won’t choose!!! Both Stefan and Damon deserve better than this, at the end it’s going to be their relationship that’s going to destroyed because of her decision.

So I guess my point is: I hope the writers know that the vampire-storyline on this show is more realistic than the relationship drama they portray!!!!